I hear from women going through the transition from chemically straightened to natural hair fairly often, and what I pick up on quite a bit is a feeling of frustration. Yes, handling two radically different textures can be a challenge, and if you're not up for the challenge or prepared for it, you may find yourself running back to the "security" of straight hair.
If you're struggling with that, let me give you some unsolicited advice: Transitioning (or even big chopping) is really a mental thing.
Until you let go of that "relaxed mindset," constantly expecting your hair to be one way when it wants to be something else, your new growth will frustrate you. It will seem dry and unruly in contrast to your straightened hair, which is "behaving" oh so well.
I'm here to tell you that black hair is not:
- Bad
- Rebellious
- Thinking about you!
Your hair isn't your enemy, but your mindset may be. Returning to natural hair after years of wearing it otherwise will be easier once you come to terms with your unique texture and what it will and won't easily do. Some women have lots of frizz; others have tons of shrinkage. Accept your hair for what it is. Once your mind conquers that challenge, the rest is easy.
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